Baby’s Almost Here…

Grace has been noticing some biological and physical changes to her body. This can only mean one thing: The rascal is almost ready to meet see the world! The human body is really a miracle machine. In most cases, when the fetus is ready in its development, somehow (scientists still don’t know how) the body secrets a hormone to make the necessary changes to a woman’s body to prepare her for the birthing ritual.

Grace said that the last time she spoke to Annie, her friend in Australia who was also pregnant at the time, brought up the almost the same symptoms as ones Grace’s experiencing now; and a couple of days later, she gave birth to a healthy girl.

So now we are kicking into the “standby” gear. So Grace washed all the baby cloths and blankets while I helped organized the baby’s crib (mattress, bed sheet, bumps, toys… etc). I might put the infant car seat in the car as well today.

Ah~ the fun is about to begin.

Brian’s Blog’s Up!

Finally got Brian over on to my server last week. Set him up with WordPress and life is good.

We found ourselves trying to catch up with each other with very mundane stuff every time we start a conversation. Blogging, as Brian has discovered, allows friends/families to keep in touch with ideas, thoughts and the latest insignificant things (that you still want to know about) in each other’s lives.

We’ve been friends since sophomore year back at SCAD. He was the Deputy Marriage Commissioner who performed the ceremony at my wedding. It was pretty cool to have my best friend to conduct the ceremony. Not sure if this option is available elsewhere, but we were thankful that it was in San Jose, California.

Ultrasound — Three Time’s the Charm

Last time I mentioned Grace’d be going in for a third ultrasound scan. The hospital just wanted to make sure that the development of the fetus is on par.

This time we got the same ultrasound operator as when Grace got her first scan (the last one was weird). The guy has an awesome office with a tiny forest garden (literally; not one of those sandy Zen ones) going on his desk right next to the machine.

The operator confirmed that everything looked normal and on target (size, weight, amniotic fluid.. etc). He commented that sometimes pediatricians get paranoid when some petite Asian women are compared to 180lbs Caucasian ones. Though most fetuses are similar in size, sometimes the appearance of the belly can vary drastically. Apparently Grace is on the petite part of the spectrum (for now).

Michael said that some women experience a phenomenon called “popping” towards the end of the pregnancy (last couple of weeks, even) where the belly suddenly grows enormous. Maybe that’ll happen to Grace.

Less than a month to go. Preciously few days are left for good night sleeps. 🙁

Tiger-like Search Box

Took sometime to fiddle with the Search Box today to make it look like this:
My search box screenshot

Much to my dismay, this elegant look only works under Safari. Under any other browser, it’d look like any normal search box.

This All the other browsers blows!

Apple has an elegant solution at its Dashboard Widgets download site (upper right hand corner). But it involves image alignments… And I don’t really want mine to look like this:
Apple's search box screen shot
(this was happened in Firefox after a search result was returned)

Somewhere I have Never Travelled — e.e. cummings

Found this poem a few weeks ago while going through my “inspiration chest”. Before it gets pushed to the back of my consciousness again, I thought posting it on my blog would be a good reminder for myself.

somewhere i have never travelled, gladly beyond
any experience,your eyes have their silence:
in your most frail gesture are things which enclose me,
or which i cannot touch because they are too near

your slightest look will easily unclose me
though i have closed myself as fingers,
you open always petal by petal myself as Spring opens
(touching skilfully, mysteriously) her first rose

or if your wish be to close me, i and
my life will shut very beautifully, suddenly,
as when the heart of this flower imagines
the snow carefully everywhere descending;
nothing which we are to perceive in this world equals
the power of your intense fragility: whose texture
compels me with the color of its countries,
rendering death and forever with each breathing

(i do not know what it is about you that closes
and opens; only something in me understands
the voice of your eyes is deeper than all roses)
nobody, not even the rain, has such small hands

— e.e. cummings

Read more about E.E. Cummings here.

Yo, Yao (Again)!

First Yao Ming ate at the same place as I on Wednesday. Today Grace also saw him at the same Chinese restaurant!

Grace went to her cousin’s pre-wedding dinner with her cousin’s family in Fremont. I couldn’t go because I had a class tonight. And sure enough, Yao Ming was also there, taking up an entire section of the restaurant which the management took the effort to go the extra mile for him.

I guess fame does sometimes get in the way of doing what normal people take for granted. Even eating can be a hassle.

I gotta find out what Yao’s number is. Lotto time! 😉

Yo, Yao!

Bumped into Yao Ming yesterday at a local Korean restaurant. What a day.

Had dinner with Yoshiaki from high school last night. Just right before I arrived, Yoshi said he saw a really tall Asian guy walking into the restaurant. He suspected he might have been Yao Ming.

Sure enough, when we left, Yao Ming was also leaving. Holy Jesus… he’s one tall bastard! But I didn’t wait to see how he fitted himself into his SUV. It looked like he’s bigger than the damn SUV. It was ridiculous.

Thailand and Its Wonders

Coming back from his short trip to Thailand, Cheehoi shared some of his experiences with us. He concluded that Thai Buddhist architecture is probably the most spectacular of all religious architectures in the world. It’s hard to find reasons to disagree with him.

Coming back from his short trip to Thailand, Cheehoi shared some of his experiences with us. He concluded that Thai Buddhist architecture is probably the most spectacular of all religious architectures in the world. It’s hard to find reasons to disagree with him.

I bought an interesting book when I went back in 2002 — Thai Ways by Denis Segaller (ISBN 974-202-006-X). It provides a lot of insights to this wonderful culture and its graceful people. I wish I knew about this book when I was still living in Thailand. I liked this book so much that I even wrote a review on Amazon.com!

Even though most political analysts say that the King of Thailand has no direct power and serves only as a symbol of culture and religious figure, I’d say just the opposite is true. During the 1992 bloodless coup (gotta give it to the Thais to have a series of “bloodless coups), the country was in such a disarray that it took the words of the King to bring peace to the land. Even the macho coup leaders had to bow in front of His Excellency and submit to his power. I doubt George Bush Jr., supposedly the most powerful leader in the world, can command that kind of respect from its people with gun barrows.

On a similar note, there was a big controversy in 2002 when an American opened a restaurant using a poster of the King on its advertising campaigns in local papers. The poster depicted the King as a hip-hop punk with highlighted hair bands. Americans see it as something funny and a sign of freedom of speech. But in the eyes of the Thais, who are serious about their King, they see it as an insult. It’s as serious as if someone says to your face, “Your mother is a dirty whore. I had a good time with her.”

Boonsom Watanapanee, deputy counsul general of the Royal Thai Consulate in New York, puts it best, “… I know you can make jokes with the president, with Queen Elizabeth, but not with my king.”

This international incident developed to a point where the government of Thailand threatened to break all diplomatic relations with the United States unless the poster was never used again and that the owner apologized to His Excellency the King. Being culturally insensitive, the expected result was, of course, the owner’s refusal. She still thought that was just a harmless joke and planned to run the ad again! It only took an insensitive American to get on the local radio show to mock the King some more. Even I, a non-Thai national, got very offended about the King of Thailand being mocked as such.

Yeah, freedom of speech is sacred. But so is respect and a little sensitivity.

Cats Know What’s Going On

Grace and I are convinced cats are definitely much more self-concious than many anti-cat people project them to be. They KNOW what’s going on.

Grace and I are convinced cats are definitely much more self-concious than many anti-cat people project them to be. They KNOW what’s going on.

Our cats are good examples, particularly Baobao.

Babao understands quite a lot of vocabularies from Grace and I. She knows when Grace asks her to get her cat salad every morning; and she understands to meow and sit before I’d let her outside (and she knows it when I become annoyed at her repeated begging at 2AM sometimes). These could be viewed as training through habbits. But we think it’s more than just that.

Both Baobao and Wawa know their names very well. Wawa always turns her head and looks into your eyes when you call on her. Baobao comes to you when you call her name (after a few times). And the funny thing is, sometimes Baobao pretends she doesn’t hear you when she sleeps. But you know it’s a dead give-away when her tail wags as soon as her name is called. If you keep calling, she’d open her eyes, roll and go back to sleep. What a bum.

We think Baobao has a better grasp of human technologies than Wawa. She understands that when it’s cold, cuddling inside blankets keeps her warm — and two layers are better than one. During the winter, if you can’t find Baobao anywhere else in the house, try under the blanket. Baobao is also a fan of, well, fan. Not equipped with a central air, our new apartment gets pretty warm in the summer. Baobao has discovered that, if she sleeps at Grace’s spot on our bed, she gets the maximum coverage to the wind from the fan. Grace even observed Baobao experimenting with walking around different spots of the bed to make sure that her spot was the coolest. What the hell!

Wawa is not quite as alert as Baobao at times, however. But she did demonstrate her loyalty to Grace in an incident.

As mentioned earlier, our house gets a lot of cat visitors. One of the cats usually comes by once a day to check out our cats. But one time she was unpleasantly surprised by Grace’s sudden appearance in the kitchen when the alley cat obviously wanted to be alone with Wawa. Aggregated, she hissed at Grace. Surprisingly, Wawa immediately hissed back at the alley cat to show her loyalty with Grace. The message got through; the alley cat quietly accepted the challenge and she never hissed at Grace again.

Some hard core Christians once told me that only humans have souls. The rest of the animal kingdom is simply accessories to men. Other animals have no souls or feelings. This is what really ticked me off about certain clans of the Christian religion. How can they be so self-righteous and proclaim to be above all else in nature? How can they reject signs of intelligence exhibited by species other than humans? This kind of stupidity is what will put an end to men’s misery when we destroy ourselves with pollution and irreversable destruction of the Earth.

MythTV — Part III — It Must Be the Hardware

I give up. It’s got to be the hardware. So long, PVR-150.

After my last two posts (here and here), I decided maybe my Linux skills are still too rough. Perhaps I should stick to something I know more about: MS Windows 2000.

Just to make sure that Linux was not the problem, I put Windows 2000 back on to my PC box. After getting all the updates and installing the drivers for PVR-150, still nothing! Now this got me thinking. Maybe it’s the hardware! The hardware must’ve been screwed up.

So off it went in UPS return box (paid for by Buy.com’s online auto-RMA and UPS shipping label generation software). I will get a new card in a week or so. And we’ll see.