{"id":556,"date":"2006-06-29T11:15:32","date_gmt":"2006-06-29T19:15:32","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.wiredatom.com\/blog\/2006\/06\/29\/toys\/"},"modified":"2006-06-29T11:15:32","modified_gmt":"2006-06-29T19:15:32","slug":"toys","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.wiredatom.com\/blog\/2006\/06\/29\/toys\/","title":{"rendered":"Toys"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>When taken with a broader definition, &#8220;toy&#8221; can mean a lot of things &#8212; gadgets for geeks, frivolous and over-priced show-off transporations, relationship between two people, or, simply, just something to play with.<\/p>\n<p>Adults seem to have no problems treating ourselves with &#8220;toys&#8221; of all kinds. Of course, all justifiable in the name of productivity, utility and convenience (but seriously, when can a Rolax do that a $50 Swatch can&#8217;t?). We are also compulsive buyers who crave for the latest and the greatest model of everything. But what it comes down to is this: We are no more childish than the kid standing next to us, sobbing from the cold rejection of his parent for that Pokemon &#8220;toy&#8221; he really wanted. The only difference between us and him? Cold, hard cash and a parent standing in the way. We are no more clear-headed than he, nor are we more logical or reasonable than he. <\/p>\n<p>I think males have a worse tendency in this than the female species, too. Just think about that for a moment. (Though ladies do have a tick for different types of things).<\/p>\n<p>So I wonder why adults subject the double standards on kids when they themselves can&#8217;t control what kind of &#8220;toys&#8221; they think they ought to have and sometimes for unexplanable reasons. Raising kids takes a lot of responsibility. And everytime when I see a parent dragging his\/her child away from a toy with unqualified reasons, I can&#8217;t help but wonder what kind of lessons s\/he is teaching the child &#8212; that it is OK for me to impose this on you even though I can&#8217;t really tell you why. <\/p>\n<p>When implied in a social order, this kind of subjective non-reasoning can take a toll on how we solve problems socially and politically. When a whole generation of kids growing up thinking it&#8217;s OK to have double standards, as long as it&#8217;s enforced top-down, we are going to have problems in the society. I guess I could argue that the same thing goes to raising children in general. But that&#8217;s a whole other topic altogether.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>When taken with a broader definition, &#8220;toy&#8221; can mean a lot of things &#8212; gadgets for geeks, frivolous and over-priced show-off transporations, relationship between two people, or, simply, just something to play with. Adults seem to have no problems treating ourselves with &#8220;toys&#8221; of all kinds. Of course, all justifiable in the name of productivity, &hellip; <a href=\"https:\/\/www.wiredatom.com\/blog\/2006\/06\/29\/toys\/\" class=\"more-link\">Continue reading<span class=\"screen-reader-text\"> &#8220;Toys&#8221;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":"","jetpack_publicize_message":"","jetpack_publicize_feature_enabled":true,"jetpack_social_post_already_shared":false,"jetpack_social_options":{"image_generator_settings":{"template":"highway","default_image_id":0,"font":"","enabled":false},"version":2}},"categories":[5,9,16,17],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-556","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-baby-stuff","category-philosophy","category-politics","category-society-environment"],"jetpack_publicize_connections":[],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack_shortlink":"https:\/\/wp.me\/s54IqZ-toys","_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.wiredatom.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/556","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.wiredatom.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.wiredatom.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.wiredatom.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.wiredatom.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=556"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.wiredatom.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/556\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.wiredatom.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=556"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.wiredatom.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=556"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.wiredatom.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=556"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}