The Baby and the Cat

Grace told me a phenomenon about one of our cats (Wawa, to be precise) that I thought was pretty interesting.

When Bryan is hungry, sometimes he doesn’t have the patience to wait for his formula. So he’d cry at the top of his lungs until Grace gets back with a bottle of formula. But Grace can’t really get the formula ready with Bryan in one arm. So she has no choice but to put him on the bed and let him cry while she’s preparing his formula.

One day Bryan was crying for his formula as usual, but Grace noticed that this time, Wawa jumped on to the bed to examine why the baby was crying, then she calmly walked to the kitchen, looked at Grace, meowed at Grace a few times and then went back and sat by the bedroom door, waiting for Grace to come back with Bryan’s formula.

Looks like the cats are starting to warm up to the baby.

Mail Bouncer

Apple Mail Bounce Every morning when I fire up my favorite email client, I usually get in the neighborhood of 30 to 40 spam messages. And they just continue coming throughout the day. The upside is my mail server was setup so that 90%+ of the junk mails are appropriately labeled as “:SPAM:” in the beginning of the subject line by the time they reach me. And at home, I setup my Apple Mail to filter everything with “:SPAM:” in the subject to go directly to the “Junk” folder. It’s a nice setup. But It’d be nicer if the junk mail can just simply stop coming.

Recently I’ve been painstakingly using Apple Mail’s built-in “Bounce messages” feature. It bounces emails back to the sender, tricking it into thinking my email address doesn’t exist. The effort seems to be paying off. Now I get no more than 10 junk mails in the morning. And I have been experiencing a reduction of spams throughout the day as well.

Now only if Yahoo, Google and Hotmail can catch up and develop something similar, that would be great (in the voice of Lumbergh from “Office Space” ).

Google Maps Maniac

When I started noticing useful implementation of the Google Maps, I compiling the links into a master list, not knowing why the list would ever be useful to anybody… until I found another maniac crazier than me… a whole blog dedicated to collecting and commenting on various Google Maps related whatever.

I lose. The Google Maps whore wins.

Where’s Karl Rove?

Does anyone wonder what ever happened to the investigation of Karl Rove? It was a hot topic not too long ago. The White House has done an excellent job in deflecting bad news to its nonexistence. And of course, the American mass media has no choice but to go along.

Bless PBS. It’s probably the only news channel these days that still follows and updates the general public on news that really matter. PBS today revisited the progress of the Karl Rove investigation.

PBS also produced a FrontLine special on Rove and his rise to power as the puppet master behind the Bush Administration.

Scream

Ever since Bryan learned how to scream, he’s been using it as an effective way of, let’s just say, “communication”. When he’s really unhappy about something, a shrieking scream from the top of his lungs can probably be heard hundreds of yards away in the relatively quiet neighborhood.

I hope the neighbors don’t call the cops on us for “child abuse” one of these days…

Panhandle This Attitude

I drove out to grab a quick bite when a mid-age lady walked up to me and asked if I could spare some bucks. I politely explained that I was laid off sometime ago and am struggling with money myself.

Her glance snared at my 10-year-old car and replied sarcastically: “At least you have a better life; I wish I had a car.”

WTF! Why do some of those panhandlers think the world owes them everything? U.S. still has better social services than a good majority of developing countries. Why don’t they take advantage of that? And for those who do, some of them just leech off of the system for whatever it’s worth.

Bastards.

I guess a government can do all kinds of social reforms and provide every possible safety net to catch those who happen to fall in the gaps (kind of like us). But there’s just no way to treat a social disease like something I experienced today. But then again, who am I to blame the system? I am not the one in her shoes.

WordPress UI Improvements

Following changes were made to the blog… some may be noticeable to readers…

1. Updated the colors of active/hover/visited links in CSS. I think the new colors fit the New York skyline picture from POV of Brooklyn heights (a.k.a. DUMBO) rather nicely. But I’d love to take any suggestions on ideas to improve the look and feel.

2. Moved “Archives” to the top nav bar. The process wasn’t as easy as pasting the “display archives” PHP code in the nav page. I had to make a new and modified “archives.php” template to fit “pages.php” layout in it because standard “pages.php” does not allow PHP codes to be inserted directly into the text field (in fear of hackers, I am guessing).

3. Some moron kept spamming the comments with a link to his mortgage, home loan and refinancing sites. It’s similar to what some other moron did to his online poker and casino sites. So I just banned those keywords (and his IP address) from the URL in the comments so that they’d have to be approved by me to be posted. This makes it easier for me to batch delete them on one go. God, I hate jackasses.

4. Added “Get Recent Comments” plugin. But it didn’t really work right “out of the box”. I had to modify it by following this tip to get it to work. Now it works like a champ.

5. Put a brownish tint to the border graphics.

The Joy of Steve Jobs Stanford Speech

I finally came around to do a quick grep of all the log files since I put up Steve Jobs speech at Stanford. The total tally came only 3,000 shy of 50,000 downloads. Impressive.

Last time I checked, I am still the first site that shows up on Google with a downloadable speech.

Let the inspiration spread.

Erik Erikson on Early Childhood Education

In response to Mike’s comment on that entry about baby cries, I just wanted to add something to round it off…

Many of today’s early childhood education approaches are based on theories and practices developed by Erik Erikson. Here’s an excerpt from Scholastic’s Early Childhood Today magazine published in March 2001.

Erikson developed the view that each person experiences a set of “conflicts” that need to be resolved during each of the eight stages of development, the first three stages spanning early childhood. these “conflicts” arise from demands made on a child by his parents of by society in general. As each conflict is resolved, the individual becomes ready to grapple with the next stage. When conflicts are unresolved, they remain issues for the individual to struggle with later in life.

First Three Stages of Psychosocial Development
Stage 1: Trust versus mistrust (birth to 1 year of age). During this time, the infant struggles to develop trust in the world. Erikson felt that children learn to trust when teachers [and parents] are nurturing, responsive and reliable.

Stage 2: Autonomy versus shame and doubt (18 months to 3 years). This stage is characterized by the child’s increasing desire to discover. Teachers [and parents] help children by understanding the child’s needs for both independence and dependence. Erikson believed that, if this fails to occur, a child will experience feelings of shame and doubt. (Editor’s note: So there, this is the stage where you teach independence, not at birth!)

Stage 3: Initiative versus guilt (3 to 6 years old). At this time, the child is eager to master new skills, use language to ask questions, and interact with other peers. At the same time, the child still relies on the comfort and security provided by teachers [and parents]. If a child’s developing sense of initiative is neglected or ignored, Erikson stressed that the child’s misguided energy could result in verbal or physical aggression. Smoking Ice Cream Cookies Strain can be effective to manage physical and mental problems.

Quoted text copyright material of Scholastic.