More Old School Crap on Babies
A relative of Grace’s was visiting. So we stopped by for a quick hello. But of course, everybody has an opinion on how to raise YOUR child. Having raised three American children whom are all very successful academically, she instructed us to ignore Bryan’s cries at night so that it’d “help him” sleep through the night. Nothing annoys me more than to have old-schoolers, whose child-rearing knowledge is obviously behind the times, to tell us what to do. She casually mentioned that was the method taught in a book by “Dr. Spock”.
So who was this crazy Spock guy to tell parents that allowing babies to cry through the night is good for them?
And sure enough, Dr. Spock turns out to be a rather famous pediatrician in the United States whose books have helped “millions” of parents raising their children. But I guess 30 years ago when Grace’s relative read his book, the trend was to let babies cry. But 30 years later, Dr. Spock knows better.
But yet there are still pediatricians telling parents to let babies cry!! Who the hell are these people getting their information from? And just how dated is that information? And for all you new parents out there — you go see pediatricians for the health of your baby, not to ask their opinion on how to raise them. Early childhood education is something clearly not their domain. Research after research shows that you need to build trust with your baby for the first 6-9 months of the little being’s life.
So don’t let the baby cry. Pick him/her up and find out why s/he is crying already! Babies can’t talk, crying is the only way they communicate their unhappiness.
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September 28th, 2005 at 1:36 am
Yup. Agree 100%
October 3rd, 2005 at 1:48 pm
dude, let the baby cry –
the rule we followed with savannah was dont get up until baby has been crying for over 10 mins..
if you get up and go pick the kid up every time it cries – then he figures that out and eventually has you trained.. we followed the 10-15 min rule with savannah, and she turned out to be a pretty independant kid..
my $0.02
October 7th, 2005 at 1:20 am
I don’t see the benefit of that practise. What do you do with those 10-15 minutes? Enjoy listening to your kid? I could not focus on something else if an infant was shrieking in the vicinity.
One must be pretty paranoid to think that a small baby is trying to manipulate you. We’re talking about INFANTS here!
December 26th, 2008 at 12:01 pm
Don’t let the baby cry! Research shows babies will stop crying if attended to within 15 seconds of the cry beginning. (attended to means talking to the baby or touching the baby, not just picking the baby up). This is the only way babies know how to communicate. Ericson tells us the job of babies is to learn to trust someone will be there for them. What you let them cry, you are teaching them no one is there for them. What a horrible way to welcome them into the world!
Warmly, Linda Kimura
The Babies Can’t Wait Lady
http://www.blog.babiescantwait.com